The Essence , The Nittus Grittus.

If you are unhappy, be unhappy. Do not judge yourself for being that way. It is wonderful to be unhappy, it is God expressing emotion. Love your unhappiness. It means you are ready for change. You are ready to go forward, yet you mourn for the old; you are not ready to let go. Allow the unhappiness, there is purposefulness in it.

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